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10 Ways Your Gay Dating Profile Sucks! »
Putin demonstrates bad gay dating profile photo

Sorry to break the news, but your profile probably sucks. It's sending out all the wrong messages, attracting all the wrong guys, and putting off the lads you really want to get with. I'm going to list 10 ways your profile (probably) sucks. 

1. Photo me bad

When it comes to profiles the picture is often the first and worst offender. See this picture of Vladimir Putin (right). It's a good way to kick off our discussion of what makes a bad dating photo. Moobs? Check. Hint of things below the waistline? Check. Dis ...
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How to Deal With Being Dumped »
Gay man
It hurts, but it don't last

"I was on my way home from work, when I got the text message. "I don't think I can come down this weekend. I'm not going to be around much from today. See you when I see you." I knew what this meant. It had been building for weeks. So there I was, dumped, by text, on a Friday afternoon."

Jon is relating a tale to me of how one relationship went sour. And it's a scenario we're all likely to be familiar with. The shock and pain, or sometimes the relief and closure, of being dumped.

There are many ways for a relationship to end. Some come to a full-stop ove ...
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Joy and champagne at GDA today »
Champagne at GDA HQ today

Watching the Commons debate last night, and then seeing the results come in was tantalising, breathtaking, incredible. Seeing the "traditionalist" arguments (contorted, twisted, convoluted) being swept aside by simple common sense and logic, was a miracle of political efficacy. Of course the passage of the Same Sex Marriage Bill does not legalise equal marriage, but it shows the will of parliament and the will of the people. 

Well done to everybody involved especially the Coalition for Equal Marriage and other campaigns, the Conservative MPs who support ...
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30 Ways to Lose Your Lover »
Gay couple in restaurant
You got the guy, you got the date, now get real!

You've got the date. You've got the place. You've got the guy. Now get real! You can still balls up your entire night if you're not careful! Use our handy guide to avoid dating doom and disaster, and come out the next morning smelling of roses :-)

  1. Flying without a licence. Double check that zip after your trip to the lav.
  2. Getting pissed. Watch what you're drinking, nervo-boy.
  3. Crooked teeth. Get yourself down to the fang-wre ...
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Happy Olympics! »

Quick post. Was considering blogging about the new marriage laws in Scotland (yay!) the reaction in churches in England, Wales and Ireland (calls to pray for the survival of marriage, for example) and other serious stuff that affects our ability to love and lead our lives freely.

But instead today I'm just gonna say WAHEY to the opening of the Olympics, our success in the women's cycling and swimming and what a fab atmosphere the event is creating in London and throughout the country. :-)

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Is Your Boyfriend a SpaceMan? »
Gay relationships - together but alone
Dating a "SpaceMan" can be frustrating

“Jamie, I like being with you, but you know I need my space.”

These words, spoken by my then heartthrob man, struck terror into my heart. I knew then - on some level - that our relationship was doomed. Coming as it did, after 9 months of intense dating, and many hints of moving in together being dropped (by me), I could tell that the relationship was not going to move smoothly onto the next phase. For me that meant moving in, and becoming an established couple.

Why was the ever-increasing c ...
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Dating an Older Guy »
Gay Dating an Older Guy
The pleasures and pitfalls of hooking an older fella

Hi guys. Just wanted to share some thoughts on inter-generational dating. It seems to be something that many of my contemporaries are into. And let's be clear - it's perfectly normal to be attracted to a much older guy - it doesn't mean you have unresolved dad issues or anything. But sometimes it can lead to pitfalls. So I've done a very unscientific survey of some fellas, and here's what I found. 

Age difference makes a difference. They might say "age ain't nothing but a number", but ...
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Obama vs Romney vs Gay Marriage »
Romney Obama Gay Marriage Views
What are Obama and Romney's views on gay marriage?

If you were living in America today, who would you vote for in the Presidential elections? Make no mistake, what happens in this election will affect you, me and the whole LGBT community. American had better get this right.

In the UK our three-party system has many drawbacks. One illustration of this is how young people are turned off party politics entirely. Party membership is down across the board, and attendance at party conferences dwindling. Instead of allying themselves to political parties, new voters ...
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Momentum Towards Gay Marriage Is Unstoppable »

The UK is on an unstoppable journey towards the legalisation of gay marriage. 

Gay Marriages in Church
Don't worry Christians, this will not happen

The coalition realises that a rights imbalance of this magnitude cannot last long in modern society. Coalition tories have surprised many by their vocal support for the issue, from the Prime Minister down, with few exceptions. But in recent weeks it looked like we had been back-burnered as other events took over the policital establishment, and momentum looked lost. 

The recent cabinet reshuffle was of concern. Dav ...
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Gay Marriage Law Must Come Into Effect »

Today's news is full of reports that the Church of England has again warned that gay marriage will erode the concept of marriage and lead to disestablishment of the Church and State.

We disagree entirely and insist that religion has no right to interfere with human relationships, no right to dictate who should marry whom, no right to claim ownership of marriage, and must withdraw from its legal status as "Church of state". The Church must accept its place as arbiter of religious sentiment and not moral sentiment.

Today we applaud the coalition in their defensive stance, particularly the Convervatives, who have displayed bravery over this issue given the backdrop of traditional convervative values which have opposed gay r ...
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